Chapter 21
21.1. Healthy Relationship Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am in love with my partner
I respect my partner deeply
I am able to be my true self around my partner
I communicate my wants and needs clearly
I always take into consideration the perspective of my partner
I am constantly striving to grow the love between my partner and myself
I am able to draw boundaries when needed
I go out of my way to support my partner
I am tuned in to the wants and needs of my partner
I am able to take space for myself when needed
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will develop a healthy relationship with my partner
I will be a wonderful spouse
I am starting to feel more and more in love
I will act with respect and care towards my partner
I am constantly developing and growing my relationship
Each day I feel closer to my partner
I am able to communicate clearly
I will always be honest and loving towards my partner
My relationship is improving each and every day
I will express my wants and needs clearly
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I deserve to have a healthy relationship
I can respectfully communicate my feelings
Having a healthy relationship is extremely important to me
I do everything possible to nurture the love I have for my partner
My partner respects and cherishes me
Honest communication is one of my natural strengths
Having a healthy and loving relationship is just a normal part of my life
Drawing boundaries and fostering respect is important
Listening to my partners feelings is very important to me
Building a healthy relationship is worthy of any and all effort
21.2. Happy Relationship Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am building a happy relationship
I am dedicated to my partner
I am able to balance my own needs with the needs of my partner
I am happy and confident within myself
I deeply respect and cherish my partner
Making my partner happy is important to me
I am full of positive loving energy
I always bring positivity to my relationship
I communicate honestly and lovingly
I am overflowing with love and gratitude for my relationship
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will do everything in my power to build a happy relationship
I will remain dedicated to my partner
Each day I am happier and happier in my relationship
The love I feel for my partner is growing exponentially
My partner will appreciate the respect and consideration I give
I will express myself honestly and openly
I will let my partner know how much I love them
I will honor my relationship deeply
My relationship is becoming healthier and happier
Others will notice what a great relationship I have
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I deserve to have a happy relationship
There is a deep and profound love between my partner and I
Having a happy relationship is just a normal part of my life
I always express respect and love for my partner
Having a happy relationship is one of my top priorities
My partner and I are just naturally tuned in to each other
I am overflowing with gratitude for my happy relationship
I will nourish the love between my partner and I
My relationship is naturally healthy and happy
My partner and I are deeply happy together
21.3. Lasting Relationship Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am positive and loving
I support my partner unconditionally
I am deeply in love
I always communicate honestly, openly, and with respect
I am in a lasting relationship
I am focused on growing a healthy relationship
I always take my partner’s point of view into consideration
I am kind and considerate
I am able to draw boundaries
I always honor my relationship
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will build a lasting relationship
My relationship is getting stronger every day
I will always love and appreciate my partner
The respect between my partner and I is growing
I am starting to communicate honestly with my partner
I am falling more and more in love
I will be grateful for my relationship
Each day I become a better partner
I will nurture and protect my relationship
I will strive to express love and respect on a daily basis
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I deserve to have a lasting relationship
My relationship is a top priority in my life
I enjoy going out of my way to make my partner happy
It is important that I feel loved and secure
There is a natural connection between my partner and I
I can build the lasting relationship of my dreams
Nurturing a healthy relationship comes naturally to me
My partner effortlessly senses my love
Taking care of my relationship is of utmost importance
There is a natural trust within my relationship
21.4. Be More Romantic Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am becoming more romantic every day
I can easily see when romantic situations will arise
I can think of new romantic gestures
Romance helps me show my partner how much I love them
I am not ashamed to be romantic
Romance improves my relationship
Being romantic makes my partner happier
I can naturally be romantic
I enjoy having more romance in my relationship
Romance helps to bring positivity to my relationship
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
My relationship will benefit from more romance
I will learn to recognise romantic situations more easily
I will show my love for my partner more through romance
I find that I become more romantic every day
I will become more romantic
I will become less embarrassed to be romantic
I am transforming into somebody who is naturally romantic
I will begin to find it easier to think of romantic gestures
Romance will make my relationship more spontaneous
The more romantic I am, the more appreciated I will become
--- Natural Affirmations ---
My partner is pleased that I am becoming more romantic
I enjoy being romantic
Being romantic is easy
My relationship is my top priority
My romantic gestures make my partner happy
Being romantic is the most natural thing in the world
Others envy my close relationship
Becoming more romantic has improved my life
I am a naturally romantic individual
I am happier in my relationship since becoming more romantic
21.5. Commitment Phobia Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am completely committed to my partner
I do not dwell on my past relationships
I am no longer frightened of being in a relationship
I believe in my ability to have a successful relationship
I am not afraid to introduce my partner to friends and family
I respect myself and my partner very much
I remain calm when my partner talks about commitment
My relationship makes me feel safe and loved
I am finding it easier to relax more in relationships
The more committed I become, the less stressful my relationship is
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will become more committed to my relationship
When the right person comes along commitment will not be an issue
My commitment to my partner increases every day
I am transforming into a positive and committed individual
The more committed I become, the more my relationship improves
Every day my relationship improves
Others are beginning to notice how committed I am becoming
I am beginning to realise that my fear of commitment is hindering me
I will become more open about my feelings
I will overcome my fear of commitment
--- Natural Affirmations ---
Others see me as an individual committed to my relationship
Commitment is easy
Being committed to my partner comes naturally to me
I do not constantly wish I was single
Since I have been committed my life has improved
My relationship is the most important thing in the world to me
My friends are envious of how committed my partner and I are to one another
Speaking about relationship issues with my partner is normal
I enjoy being in a relationship
I have the power to control whether my relationship works out or not
21.6. Relationship Jealousy Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I realise that my partner chooses to be with me and nobody else
My partner and I are both happy in our relationship
I discuss any issues with my partner
I enjoy being in a relationship
I can easily express my opinions and feelings
I am naturally trusting of my partner
I find it easy not to get jealous in my relationship
I am a naturally positive person
My life and relationship are great
Other people see me as happy and fulfilled
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will become more confident within my relationship
I will forget my past issues
Every day I trust my partner more
Other people are starting to notice how my confidence has increased
I will not constantly accuse my partner of cheating
I will not ruin any more relationships with my jealousy
I am turning into someone who is more trusting
I am naturally becoming more confident and positive
I will begin to smile more and show the world how happy I am
I am becoming happier every day
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I will not let my past issues reflect on my new relationship
Others are envious of my trusting relationship
My relationship is a huge part of my life and I will not jeopardise this
I realise that it is important for my partner to have friends of the opposite sex
My partners happiness is very important to me
My relationship makes me happy
I know that there is no one but me that my partner is interested in
I am becoming more relaxed in my relationship
Being less jealous has improved my life
My optimism is increasing every day
21.7. Relationship Insecurity Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am confident enough not to worry about my relationship
I can forget the past and move on with my life
I am a confident person who can achieve anything
I deserve a happy relationship
My self esteem is higher than it ever has been
My relationship allows me to be happier
I am able to concentrate on the positive aspects of my relationship
I find it easy to trust my partner
I am naturally happy in my relationship
I enjoy being in my relationship
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will learn to trust my partner more
I will stop thinking negatively about every relationship I have
I am transforming into a happier person
I will not ruin another relationship with my insecurities
Every day I become more confident
Other people are starting to notice how good my relationship is
I will not let the past ruin my relationship
I am turning into someone who is less insecure
I will make more of an effort with my relationship
I will appreciate my partner more
--- Natural Affirmations ---
Just because I have been cheated on in the past does not mean it will happen again
I enjoy being in a relationship
Others look at my relationship and envy it
I am happy when I do not feel insecure
My partner is happier when I am less insecure
Staying positive stops my feelings of insecurity
My partner wants to be with me
The past no longer matters to me
I deserve to be in a loving relationship
My relationship is very important to me and my partner
21.8. Get Over Your Ex Boyfriend Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am happy being single
I am no longer tied down and can do as I please
I am happy being independant
I am a strong individual
I am confident in my ability to find somebody better
I have a lot of fun when I am single
I am better off without my ex boyfriend
I do not need a man to make me happy
I always overcome challenges
I deserve to be appreciated
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will move forward with my life
I will find somebody better
Every day I miss him less
I am starting to feel more confident when not in a relationship
My positive thinking helps me to get over him
I am transforming into a better person when on my own
Each day I start to feel better about my life
I will forget about him
I think about him less as time goes on
I will become more positive about my life
--- Natural Affirmations ---
Being single is fun
I can find somebody better than my ex
Other men find me attractive
Others see me as a strong individual
I deserve to be happy
I am a self respecting individual and others see this
I believe that I can achieve more in my life without my ex boyfriend
I do not need to be in a relationship to be happy
I am happier without him
My life has improved since my relationship ended
21.9. Get Over Your Ex Girlfriend Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am happier without my ex girlfriend
I enjoy being single
I can easily find somebody else
I am confident enough to begin looking for a new relationship
I can move on with my life
I am an eligible bachelor
I am in control of my emotions
Others respect my ability to move on with my life
I find it easy not to think about my ex
I can spend more time with my friends
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I am naturally becoming more independant
I will be much happier when I forget her
I will find somebody better than her
Every day I think of her less and less
It is becoming easier to get my old life back
I will not feel upset if I see her
I will consciously stop thinking about my ex girlfriend
I am transforming into a happier person
I am becoming more positive with every coming day
II will increase my self esteem and move on
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I did not enjoy the time I spent in a relationship with my ex girlfriend
Being single helps me to appreciate my life more
Being single is easy for me
I find it easy not to think about my ex
I have the right to be happy and get on with my life
People admire what a strong person I am
My ex is no longer a major part of my life
I see being single as a positive thing
I find my life easier every day
My life has improved since the break up
21.10. Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am getting back together with my ex
I truly love and appreciate my ex
My ex can sense my inner positivity
I am confident and happy within myself
I am tuned in on a deep level to my ex
I am in a positive and loving state of mind
I am persistent and determined to get my ex back
I am confident that I can get my ex back
I am full of love and hope
My ex senses my loving energy
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will get back with my ex boyfriend
I will show him that things will be better
I am developing as a person and am ready for a meaningful relationship
I will love, respect, and honor my ex no matter what
I will be happy and content within myself
Each day my ex will feel my loving energy more and more
I will show my ex that I am confident, positive, and serious
My ex is starting to warm up to me again
I will give off loving, radiant energy
Communicating with my ex is becoming easier
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I am already back with my ex
My ex is the true love of my life
Getting back with my ex boyfriend will be easy
There exists a deep and profound love between my ex and I
My mind is focused on rebuilding our relationship
I can show my ex that I am serious
My ex will naturally sense that things will be different
Making positive changes within myself is important
Being positive and confident comes naturally to me
My ex is naturally attracted to me
21.11. Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I accept that I have made mistakes
I am eager to change
I am willing to compromise more
I am confident that I can get what I want
I am sorry for the mistakes I made
I can easily express my feelings
I can get what I want out of life
I am able to appreciate my ex girlfriend much more
I am able to speak out and tell her how I feel
I always try my best in every situation
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will be more caring in the future
I will listen more to what my ex girlfriend has to say
I will try to rectify all of the mistakes I have previously made
Every day my self confidence increases
I will become more honest with myself and others
I will be able to admit my faults more readily
I will become more naturally truthful
I am becoming more positive every day
Being back in my relationship will improve my life
I am finding myself more sincere every day
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I enjoy being in a relationship
Others envy my new self confidence and honesty
I realise that my relationship was a positive part of my life
I can remain positive even in the face of rejection
I can always try harder and never give up
I find it easy to express my feelings when I need to
Other people see how positive I now am
I realise that honesty is the difference between success and failure
I am strong enough to go out and get what I want
Rejection has made me a stronger person
21.12. Confidence With Men Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am sexy
I am a confident Woman
I am comfortable in my own skin
I attract men naturally
Men are drawn towards my positive energy
I give off a glow that everyone notices
I am full of confidence
Men can pick up on my confidence
I am naturally sexy and attractive
I always have great interactions with men
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
My confidence with men is increasing
I will always put my best self forward
I will stay positive and have fun no matter what happens
I will enjoy meeting new men
I am starting to feel more naturally confident
I am feeling sexier and more daring
Men will be drawn to my sexy and confident attitude
I will always love myself no matter what
Meeting new men is becoming more and more exciting
I will get the man I want
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I just naturally attract men
Men are naturally drawn to my femininity
Being confident and feeling great is easy for me
It is normal for me to go after the man I want
I always feel confident, sexy, and happy
My energy is naturally positive and attractive
I always feel happy and confident when I am meeting men
Meeting new men is easy for me
My personality is attractive
Men just naturally love to be around me
21.13. Attract Men Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am beautiful inside and out
I am interesting and sexy
I have an adventurous spirit
Men are naturally attracted to my radiant energy
I am full of positive energy
I am irresistible to men
Men are drawn to my womanliness
I light up a room
Men are always noticing me
I am a beautiful, confident, sexy woman
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will attract great men into my life
I am starting to feel more and more confident
I am developing an attractive personality
Men will be helpless to resist me
My sexual energy is constantly growing and developing
I will attract any man I want
Men will be drawn to my energy
I will develop my confidence
Men are starting to approach me wherever I go
My attitude is becoming more positive and attractive
--- Natural Affirmations ---
Feeling sexy and attractive is a normal part of my life
Men are always pursuing me
Men are naturally drawn to my wonderful personality
I am tuned in to my sexual power
Men love to be around me
I naturally draw men to me in all situations
I am just naturally confident and outgoing all the time
Others see me as someone who always gets attention from men
I can attract any man
Men are naturally attracted to me
21.14. Attract Your Soul Mate Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am attracting my soul mate
I believe deeply that I will attract my soul mate
My soul mate is strongly attracted to me
My mind is totally focused on attracting my soul mate
I am already connected deeply to my soul mate
I always radiate a loving and inviting energy
Others are drawn to me because of my positive energy
I deserve to find my soul mate
My soul mate and I are destined to be together
There is an unbreakable bond between my soul mate and I
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
My soul mate and I will be together
I will find my soul mate and we will live happily ever after
I am attracting my soul mate more with each day
I will attract my soul mate
A positive loving energy is growing between myself and my soul mate
I am beginning to feel deeply that I will meet my soul mate soon
Each day the energy between my soul mate and I grows stronger
I believe more each day that I will find my perfect partner
My soul mate is beginning to sense our connection
I will know my soul mate the instant we meet
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I believe in my ability to attract my soul mate
I find it easy to give off positive and loving energy to others
I can sense deeply that there is 1 special person I am meant to be with
Being warm, loving, and loveable is just a natural part of who I am
Others see me as someone they’d like to get to know more
There is a magical connection between my soul mate and I
My Soul mate and I are being drawn together
My soul mate and I are just meant to be together
When I meet my soul mate, I’ll just naturally know
I effortlessly radiate positive and loving energy
21.15. Happy Marriage Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I have a strong relationship with my spouse
We are open and sharing with each other
We understand each other
I pay attention to my spouse’s needs
We work things out by calmly talking
Both of us have a say in making decisions
We sustain a strong, healthy marriage
I am intent on nurturing our feelings for each other
I am confident in our relationship
Our feelings for each other are powerful
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
Our marriage will prosper
I will focus on the positive things in our marriage
I will stop letting things get in the way of my feelings
I will listen when my spouse has something to stay
I will work things out with my spouse on a mature, adult level
I will focus on spending the rest of my life with my spouse
My partner and I will be together forever
I will always love my spouse
Our marriage will make us happier people
I will take care of our relationship
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I always see beauty in my spouse
We simply love each other
We are destined to be together
Our relationship is meant to be long term
I am naturally aware of my spouse’s feelings
I am happy with our relationship
We love each other just the way we are
I am confident in our feelings for each other
Our relationship is naturally healthy and happy
I simply want us to be together forever
21.16. Stop Being Mr. Nice Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am independent
I express my feelings from the start
I assert myself in the relationship
I assume a health position of power in the relationship
I carry a mysterious personality
I show women respect without being overly kind
I am loving and appreciative of her in a positive way
I say what I need to say
I make sure my true thoughts are heard
I am confident with myself
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will stop being pushed around
I will stop saying yes to everything
I will open myself up to new possibilities
I will be considerate and cool
I will drop my nervousness on dates
I will let the conversation take its natural path
I will stop being walked over by women
I will stop getting put in the friend zone
I will stop being taken advantage of
I will stop trying to please everyone
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I always do what I want to do
I naturally express my feelings from the start
I simply focus on making myself happy
I am aware of her feelings as well as my own
I strictly monitor my coldness
I allow my true personality to shine though
I naturally speak my mind
I always let her know what I think
Women see me as cool, confident, and mysterious
I am naturally intriguing to women
21.17. Dating Confidence Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I am confident with myself
I am sure of myself
I realize that a date is only potential, not set in stone
I relax on my dates
I am always myself, wherever I am
I am comfortable with my personality
I say what I need to say
I plan to be spontaneous
I am intuitive
I am expressive
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will listen to my date more
I will stop being insecure with my true self
I will keep the attention on my date
I will answer truthfully
I will stop worrying about everything that I say
I will develop strong dating confidence
I will no longer be ashamed of myself
I will pay attention to my date
I will let things take their natural course
I will stop fretting over how things are going
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I am naturally polite and romantic
I simply let the conversation carry us
My ideas and words flow fluently
I ignore urges to stutter and stammer
I am always relaxed on a date
My dates see the true me
My dates see me as a confident individual
I avoid being anything but myself
I naturally forget about looks
I was born with dating confidence
21.18. Loving Your Wife Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I love my wife
I fall in love with her over again every day
My wife is beautiful inside and out
Our relationship is healthy
We have a mutual relationship of trust and understanding
I am faithful to our relationship
I love her more than anyone in the world
We work out our differences with calm discussions
My wife is a spectacular woman
I am open to conversations with her
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will work hard to better our relationship
I will treat her with respect
I will listen to what she has to say
I will look at the situation through her point of view
We will grow in love and honesty
I will be patient with her
I will be there for her whenever she needs me
I will trust her with anything
We will work hard to overcome our differences
I will always be willing to put her first
--- Natural Affirmations ---
My wife and I are made for each other
Our relationship is worth cherishing
I am naturally kind and gentle to her
We are soul mates
I am naturally loving
I am a good listener
I am always there for her whenever she needs me
I am a loving, caring husband
I love everything about my wife
I always look forward to spending time with her
21.19. Loving Your Husband Positive Affirmations
--- Present Tense Affirmations ---
I love my husband
I am willing to do anything for our marriage
I love him more and more each day
I look forward to spending time with him
Our love for one another is strong
I love everything about him
We work out our issues peacefully
My husband is my best friend
Nothing can ruin our marriage
We are passionate for each other
--- Future Tense Affirmations ---
I will listen to his ideas
I will be patient and understanding
I will enjoy spending time with him
We will set aside time to be together
I will stop letting life get in the way of our love
Our love will grow enormously over time
We will sustain a happy, healthy relationship
I will see things from his point of view
Our relationship is becoming stronger
I will pay attention to his needs
--- Natural Affirmations ---
I trust my husband with everything
I’m always considerate and compassionate
We are made for each other
I always let him know how I’m feeling
I accept him and love him for who he is
Our marriage is powerful and beautiful
We are soul mates
Nothing can get in the way of our relationship
I have powerful feelings for him
There is no one I’d rather spend time with than my husband